| Author | Flooders Tenthouse |
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| This world is filled with mean people |
| I wish it was easy to understand women |
| It is easy to understand women. |
| How! |
| Understand that women are always random about stuff. You might think they'll react one way but you never know. |
Ik. It's just they expect us to understand what the think and it's impossible to read their mind.
Mind if you could give me some tips regarding understanding what a women might want? |
| Women are more or less driven by feeling good about themselves, every woman takes a different path to feel good, they are quite predictable if you use this lens to analyze them. |
| Easiest way is to ask the woman you are interest in what they want, we sure ain't the Borg's with a hive mind under the collective to all be predictable and driven by feeling good about ourselves whatever that means, and for sure that thought won't get you far with women. |
| Sure calamity, of course base biological and psychological drives mean nothing right? The fact of the matter is that motivations are not really complicated, its only the execution that induces complexity to the ordeal, like i said , shooting down my argument made you feel good at some level and that basically proves my point. At any rate, even if you ask the woman what she wants i am sure that she will not reply with something that does not make her feel good. |
Women will never tell what they want. They will always expect us to know and understand it. Find out the hints by yourself and work on it.
It's soooooo difficult to know what they want! |
No I didn't feel good by stating this, I thought as an elder woman to give some insight to this, other than generalize half of human population, and I'll be damn if I in my 50's was interesting in cock measuring in a forum with guys who could be my kids.
Sure calamity, of course base biological and psychological drives mean nothing right? The fact of the matter is that motivations are not really complicated, its only the execution that induces complexity to the ordeal
You are describing a boring world that I am very happy that doesn't exist.
Not all women are the same as not all man are the same.
This is so flat that doesn't make sense, not all people think like as and we don't think like all people and that's the beauty of it. |
It's soooooo difficult to know what they want!
If you can't tell in any way what they want, then they most probably want nothing. |
if you ask the woman what she wants i am sure that she will not reply with something that does not make her feel good.
You mean guys only wants what make them feel bad and not good?
I don't understand what you mean. |
| I am not generalising all women, i am generalising humans , also what i meant to say is that its very easy to generate complexity with a very few basic rules, like i said the need to feel good is biologically wired, i think some doctors here can back me up on this one, so one thing you can be sure about (with either men or women) is that they are chasing that ‘good’ feeling. What i meant by that last sentence was that if you ask a woman what she wants she will definitely say she wants something that makes her feel good. The nuance in human life comes from ‘how’ you go about ‘feeling good’. The world that I described exists and it exists more or less based on simple factors alone. I know english isnt your native language so its not fair to expect you to get everything clearly. |
| Why do people always want to feel good? Why can't bad be an option too? Where people choose bad or sad at certain times. Expecting one side all the time makes life difficult. I'm not saying you need to be liking sadness exactly. I'm just wondering who said that happiness is what you should always expect. |
| Of course sadness and ‘badness’ are realities of life but people don’t really strive towards those. And happiness is a very subjective concept. But the ‘good feeling’ is associated with certain chemicals that train your brain to crave it. Idk some people also have broken systems and depression and other illnesses affect it s well. |
Holy God of goodness. My simple question turned out with some high philosophical answers!
I'll be honest, women are the most simple species in this world. They like food, attention, love, care, and comfort (missed a few but remembered these).
If you can give them these, they won't make a fuss and give back love more than you expected.
It's just we are so drawn into expectations that we always feel disappointed when something we want is not happening.
I suppose |
English are not my strong part for sure.
The more complex you think about relations the harder they get, it's the small simple things that makes you feel good and thus be happy at the end of the day. |
Women will never tell what they want. They will always expect us to know and understand it.
lol women don't even know what they want so good luck trying to give it to them.
It's like asking a fish what's the pH of the water he's in. He probably has some kind of gut feel for it but good luck getting a straight answer.
Don't overthink it lad |
| Yeah the simple answer is do what you feel is right. |
