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Whatever any of us do, we'll make sure you are n longer dpressed :) | | Seriously , just go and have a Conversation with him . Everything will go fine :) | | Once again I am deeply sorry for posting my depression here, i really dont have the intention to gain attention, it's just myself being lost in my own stress... I tried to hide it and conceal my feelings but I had to really express my feelings to someone, public or personal...I was really down... that I might would be rather lose my life rather than bearing this hardness, this feeling that made me so down and collapsed.... but thank God.. I am now okay... I still feel 'sick' whenever he doesn't answer my tickles and jokes... but there are some times that he becomes cheerful again, but of course after I had to tickle him oppressively.... I feel that I can still reach his former self... he became so evasive, and he said "I am annoyed of you following me every second", but before, if he even wanted to go to the toilet he would ask me to accompany so that I leave him a second not.... Well, I think it's really hard for me to accept that there are other people that I would counter and being better than my buddy... He was so kind... I hope there is someway I can get my bud back.... I'm not joking... I really want my best bud back... | | [Post deleted by moderator ElfPride // ignored] | | [Post deleted by moderator virtual_vitrea // unnecessary criticism.] | | I am sad, but you are sadder... whether that is in the dictionary or not, you way need more help than me... I solved my other friends' problem during my lost, but I don't deny them... Suicide doesn't change anything | man... i seriously think this is sm kind of fame prank...
if it is true. man just lev him and keep moving. he is just not worth t | | I repeat myself... this is not a fame or attention prank, both don't concern me... but I am relieved now, even though he is actually trying to be acquinted with being a best buddy of my other friend... I even thought that he somehow hypnotized him afar so that he could steal my buddy... Oh my I feel so ruined but at the same time relieved... I still repeat to myself what you guys said, maybe he's just so annoyed of me now and sick of me being with him... but then all the jokes that I made to him he somehow could handle it with my friend which he is trying to get acquainted with... I hate to think, but it always passes my mind that it is sorcery of taking soneone's best friend apart from one... When he talks with my 'friend' he laughs like a horse and smile like a sun... All of his best faces is being targeted to him... and he RARELY smile to me even when I said the truth about his horrible frown always at me.... before when I ask him to smile, he would smile to the cheek... now he said "I hate your horrible attitude of always being this cheeky to me, so stop being so innocent, hate me if it really takes you to stop behaving like that... He told me to hate him, when we were so close before he really wanted to cry whenever I give a frown, really... he said, "I am sorry for my mistake please don't hate me, forgive me...".. he would ask for forgiveness like someone who really don't want to be apart with his best buddy... This is real... I am relieved because I could handle the biggest lost in my life, and I sometimes smile alone whenever I realised that I hadn't took drastic measures like suiciding... I am so grateful... I really hope for our friendship to be tightened again.... I really mean it... This is real thing happening... Sometimes the grief just come as a whole and encumber me... I sometimes walk like a handipcapped, shivering and unable to move my body as I could whenever the grief just comes to me... | Mate, I understand your situation and that you're in sad mood. However, this kind of behavior is not the one you would expect from a man. Life is harsh and it challenges us all the time; but there is nobody out there to face these challenges instead of us.
and I sometimes smile alone whenever I realised that I hadn't took drastic measures like suiciding...
Even considering a suicide because of that would be absolutely ridiculous. The only worthy case of sacrificing yourself is when you can save a lot of other people with your own life. | | You know I myself never wanted to have this feling :'( I just hope this grief would go away... it feels so heavy... In my life I never had a best buddy... Everyone looked at me like noone... When there's just someone that wants to accept me as myself, and then he changed to hatred, it is like ripping my whole life into a turn over... In my life, he was the best person I ever met, the best friend, the best blessing... and now he's full of hatred wholely... How would I not grief... | I think your major problem is that you tend to underestimate yourself. If you had one good friend, I am quite sure you are capable of making friends, so instead of slowly eating yourself I would suggest start socializing more often.
For example, if you have a Facebook profile, try to comment some news and other people' comments in topic that interest you. This way you would successfully make dialogues and meet new people. | | I know... but I just hate to have new friends... I just want my best buddy... That's why I don't talk to others... If even my best friend don't want me to be his best buddy .. I just don't want to start over with a new person... a new best buddy.. it's just not rght to my heart... I really just can't help except to be my friend's best buddy... I really don't want to start over a friendship with another person....I sometimes hope he die as soon as possiblr so that no one could be his best bud if not me... but of course, I still behave... It may look that I am crazy now, but that's just my feeling... I still behave, and I am friendly wih him, but since hsle said he hated me, I didn't talk any more than 100 words with him today... I could feel his heart so empty of love and so filled with hatred towards me... You just can feel what others think of you... and this is absolute, he is hating me with full hatred | Then there is nothing you can do right now. Either he will reconsider and realize he was wrong, and say he's sorry, or you just need to be a man and move on.
Regrettably, there is simply no other option. | | u can find more friends buddy:) and not only u buddy right now but the truth is very rare to find real buddy i mean buddy tht help u when u in bad situation and u need them for support.most of them u find right now is when u in bad situation,their just leave u wit u own problem.their even didn't care of u but right now u already found u real buddy tht is always on u side to support u no matter how bad u situation is:).tht is the real buddy we can trust:).for the moment u must give him some space so he can relaxing his mind:).I am sure he still be u best buddy in the world.trust me:) | | be a man | I can see you're overly attached with your Buddy, and there was so much Love... infact when he did not want to be your friend anymore or just told you that he hated you, you have gone much extreme by thinking about something as stupid as suicide.
Maybe this very attitude of yours is the cause of his sudden detest. You have to stop acting so passionately about the whole friendship thingy in front of him, especially since he hates it or you might just keep annoying him more.
Its sad, but often people like to maintain distance in friendships... maybe its just you who assumed that he was as close to you. In any case, now is the best time to Move on, somehow :) | now this might get many negative comments, but you are aged... what 17 i think it said. so at this age hormones are all over the place, and the way people look and are viewed at school or college (or watever)is rather stupidly the main priority. anyway on to the part people might not agree with... you clearly have very strong feelings towards this guy, but he may be worried that your looking for more then friendship (which is of cource fine nowadays) which would explain where this sudden anger has come from.
my advice is exactly the same as what virtual_vitrea said, and many others said, give him a bit of space ( but dont stop talking completly as that could lead to not being friends at all) in a bit of time he may put his head back on :)
but now for my view, you should NEVER change who you are to please someone else.
hope you find some comfort in what i have said, or even listen to it :) but the main thing is i hope thing will work out for you (whether it includes your friend or not), and allways be happy :) | | Seriously , just go and have a Conversation with him . Everything will go fine :) | | I am so sad and pleased now... You guys do have life experiences and seems to me that I should just move on... Maybe I should just be my former self, maybe my self that I never wanted to be before this friendship, a lone boy without a best buddy... Frankly I say this but it really is hard for me to think that I can withstand living without a buddy after what we've been through.. It is so hard for me to think that I would be living alone after this... it's so hard that it sometimes makes me roll on my bed back and forth of depression... I am again sorry, but please don't delete this forum... it makes me in tranquility whenever I Read the comments here... I think that I have someone to talk to...You know depression, it just changes me...before, I am a lone person and hardly talked to others.. but having my bud avails me conversation about my self and his as well... under my depression, I am forced to talk it here... I never wanted to express my feeling to anyone, I just don't have my best bud now to talk to... I am again sorry | | In any case, you always have us here to ask for advice and support. |
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